Hmmm... Interesting. I just happened upon an INFJ profile description. I read all the way through it, and it felt like it was describing me fairly well. Of course there were some parts that weren't spot on, but it was WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY closer to my personality than any of the resulting profiles that I got from taking various tests multiple times. While I still see small aspects of my personality described in just about every single one of the profiles, this one fits me quite well. Though, it's probably an "invalid" observation since the "test" didn't label me that way. So in the end, who really knows what I am. In reality, it is possible I fit into any of the profiles that start with "I" because all three of my other pairs were pretty close to middle ground. I might indeed be an "IXXX".
Yeah, just read another description of INFJ. Totally seems like a description of me. About the only thing that DIDN'T fit me was this:
"However, they are guarded in expressing their own feelings, especially to new people, and so tend to establish close relationships slowly".
I USED to be that way, where I would keep to myself and be guarded... but lately, since my "call", I'm probably more bold and open about my feelings, shortcomings and thoughts than many people... but not necessarily because of my "personality", but because I feel God called me to do it, and because of the great power I experienced through that, I continue to operate that way, having nothing to hide or fear in myself to share.
The part about "establish close relationships slowly" is fairly accurate, but mainly because I feel so different than most people. I feel like no one will understand my confusing combination of VERY serious thoughts with VERY childish, nonsensical behavior. It doesn't even make sense to me, so I fear no one will understand it. And except for about 3 or 4 people, most don't! It was part of what my ex-wife hated in me and confused her, for the record. That I could be so silly yet so complicated at the same time
